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Monday, May 26, 2014

Life

What is life?

They say it's from B to D. From Birth to Death, but what's between B and D? It's "C", so what is C....It is a Choice. Our life is a matter of choices, Live well and it will never Go Wrong.
"No one loses anyone, because no one owns anyone. That is the true experience of freedom: 
having the most important thing in the world without owning it." (Paulo Coelho)
If we look around us we will find plenty of reasons to laugh, cry and going crazy about. Life is unpredictable, unstable(a myth in it's own), yet is joyful (an adventure it-self).
 "The truth is you don't know what is going to happen tomorrow. Life is a crazy ride, and nothing is guaranteed." (Eminem)
Life isn't about finding yourself, it's about CREATING yourself. Life is all about following your dreams and changing them into reality. Life without dreams is same as air without oxygen.
"Life is worth living, we can say, since it is what we make it." (William James)
A good life is when you assume nothing, smile often, dream big, laugh a lot and realize how blessed you are. The complications of life are like quick-sand, the more you resist, the faster you sink. Life is not as complicated as we find it, it's just that we are unable to understand it properly. Life is 10% of how you "make" it and 90% of how you "take" it.
Life is about trusting our feelings and taking chances, losing and finding happiness, appreciating the memories and learning from past. Life is too deep for words, so don't try to describe it: just live it.

Jealousy


Jealousy is defined as an envious or bitter attitude. Many people experience it every day, but not many stop to actually analyze it and consider the effects of it on their outlooks on life. This is an emotion having components of both anger and fear commonly found in children. It originates from the lack of a sense of security for the affections of one who is loved and more attended to.The most common impression of jealousy is a negative one. That idea is because jealousy is a complex emotion that can be detrimental in many ways. Jealousy can hurt one if it is taken too seriously. Often, jealousy is casually shrugged off. However, if it persists, jealousy can break a person down. Jealousy can even cause negative results such as making a person hurt someone else. 
  "The jealous are troublesome to others, but a torment to themselves."(William Penn)
Jealousy arises apprehending loss of affection. Apprehension of losing affection leads to the attitude of resentment directed towards the rival relation to a loved one, the child feels insecure and never wishes to lose that person's affection. There is subtle difference between "envy" and "jealousy". In envy, the need not be any loved one. It is a desire for things, which belong to the competitor. McDougall has defined envy as "a grudging contemplation of more fortunate persons". 
 A multifaceted emotion, jealousy is also potentially favorable. Jealousy can cause one to strive to be better. One can be motivated by the need to become better. Envy for someone else can be a good thing. Therefore, jealousy is also a positive emotion. Finally, jealousy can be a neutral and ineffective emotion. Many people who experience jealousy choose to live with it and not do anything about it. These people are not affected by jealousy, positively or negatively. They simply ignore the emotion and continue to live on with their lives. In this case, jealousy is neither harmful nor helpful.

Sunday, May 25, 2014

Religion has split apart the world

Religion is the most sensitive, most important and the most common issue raised now-a-days. Basically  religion means a particular faith or believe on any particular thing i.e. in Islam we Muslims have complete faith on ALLAH and his prophets and this is the base of our whole religion. 
  Religion  is the only platform where no matter how hatred you are with each other but you will stand united for it's cause. Religion not only provides us with a source of guidance but it also gives us a good platform to stand firm and united on it, and to protect it as well as our own rights.
  The topic that religion has split the world apart has shown very negative points, where as religion has lessened the gaps between the whole world."Religion" is not the reason why the gaps are widen, rather it is the reason why the gaps are filled.There are many religions in this world and none of them favour a social boycott or promotes a social chaos.
   "India (Hindus') has 2,000,000,000 gods, other countries are paupers; India is the only millionaire'' (Mark Twin)
Religion of any country should not be used as weapon which pin-points others, rather it should be used a cloak which defends you when you need it. By doing this we will not only prove beneficial to our community but this would also result fruit-fully in creating peace and harmony among the whole of the communities.